Majority of women believes that the sustainability of home depend solely on the men, without knowing that God has shoulder the sustainability of the home on women.
Do you know that whatever happen to your home as a woman, either good or bad, God will held you resposible ? Prover 14 : 1 " Every wise women buildeth her home, but the foolish ones plucketh it down with her hands ".
Only the womens that truly desires to be among the wise, will see meaning in this post, but the foolish ones will see it as nonsense.
The real beauty of a woman is in the heart and not in the outward appearance. 1 peter 3 : 1 ~ 5 " Likewise ye wives, be in subjection to your husbands, for if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the attitudes of the wives, while they behold your chaste attitudes couples with fear. Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or putting on of apparel. But let it be the hidden man of the heart ,in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet Spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands. "
What do you prioritize as your own real beauty, is it the outward or inner beauty ? Are you among the womens that are clamouring for equal right with their husbands as they see him as their contemporary and not their head ?
God is admonishing you today to immitate your biblical mother Sarah and adorn yourself with the real beauty of meek and quiet Spirit before your husband and be in subjection to him. Ephesian 5 : 23 " For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church, and he is the saviour of the body "
These were what you should start doing to make your home a blissful one.
1) Be silent when he his angry, and later explain to him with apology why you behave that way that got him angry, when he his calm.
2) Allow him to assert his authority as the head over you.
3) Call him a nickname.e.g, honey, swearheart, love, e.t.c.
4) Tell him " am sorry dear " quickly whenever you offended him.
5) Speak good of him at all times before everyone.
6) Honour his parents nomatter what.
7) Compel him to always buy gifts for his parent, naturally he will do same for your own parent.
8) Surprise him with his best food, especially when he has no money at hand to pay for it.
9) Never shift your duty in taking care of him to anyone.
10) Smiles at him occassionally with a peck.
11) Embrace him whenever he comes from work or journey.
12) Put love note in his launch box, pocket, or briefcase, telling him how much you love him in the note.
13) Occassionally ,phone and tell him, " i miss you or i love you ".
14) Have regular sex with him, so that satan will not have ways to his emmotion.
15) Always tell him how lucky you are, to have him as your husband.
16) Always give him a hug for no reason.
17) Pray for him always, and also initiate reading the bible and pray together regularly
18) Always see him as representative of Christ in your life, because you are indirectly doing to God, whatever you are doing to him.
You may say " hoo, ! my husband does not deserve all this from me because of the wayd he has been unfair to me in time past, Ephesian 5 : 24 says " Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything."
Its not everything that the church needed or expected from Christ that He his doing for them, most especially ,if its not His perfect will towards the church, but still the church will still be obligated to praise and worship Him at all times, that is the same way God his expecting the women to relate with their husband nomatter what.
When you start doing all the above named attributes, God knows the way to convert your husband heart and make him the best husband in the world to you.
After a while you have been doing this attributes, your husband and children will call you and says, Proverb 31 : 28 ~ 30 " Her children arise up and call her blessed, her husband also, and he praiseth her. Many daughters have done virtiously, but thou excellest them all. Favour is decietfull, and beauty is vain, but a woman that feareth the Lord , she shall be praised."
The outward beauty is vain, but God expected you to relate with your husband with your inner beauty of meek and quiet spirit which is of a great value before Him.
Utmost desires of God for creating homes is to looks for a place to have fellowships as He did with the first family, Adam and Eve, home.
God dont stay in any home, where there is perpectual rancor and misunderstanding.
If you can make your home a worthy place for God to actualized this His utmost desire, He will make His eyelids, and anyone that attempted to hurt you in anyway will experience the wrath of God, as He did for Sarah before King Pharaoh, Genesis 12 : 17 " And the Lord plagued Pharaoh and his house with great plagues because os Sarai, Abrams wife ".
Am sure you will love to have this kind of priviledge from God, therefore i implore you to put in practice all what you have learnt from this post.
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